3-ways to overcome your insecurities

Everyone has some shortcoming, which is actually their specialty.. But coming to the words of people, they consider them as their weakness.

"There is something different in everyone, don't consider it as your weakness" I had heard it many times but could never understand... until I understood myself. Every single thing that separates me from the rest of me, I started missing myself... when I regained my senses.

People made fun of my fair complexion and gray hair and said you shouldn't be here.. She would have gone back with the British... or oh oh! The British left you here. It seemed that I do not belong here..they will never make me their friend.

I had a lot of insecurities in my early teenage years. And it did not end with time but kept on increasing. When I looked at myself in the mirror, all I could see was my skinny body...the pits under the eyes, the big lips...which were not beautiful at all according to my  family and friends and probably for me too.

But as I grow older, I have also come to know that I am not alone. I understood that "there is something different in everyone". And I adopted some methods which helped me to understand myself and I learned to accept myself as I am.

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 1. Understand The Diffrence

We have to understand the difference that what are our shortcomings and what makes us different from others. It is very important to understand this difference. Because when we do not know what we have to work on within ourselves, we will not be able to succeed.

Accept the things which we have got naturally from God because this is our quality. And also work on what makes you feel bad about yourself..such as being angry or overthinking about yourself or the people around you.

We should not be bothered by our body shape or colour, rather we should think that how we can add value to the lives of others. And that is the real victory.

                                                                     

 2.Stay Away From Negative People

 Always try to keep yourself away from the influence of people who try to bring you down, may be your friends, family, relatives. Save yourself from them and try to convince them that this is not your fault. It is you.

And avoid making friendship with such people..because such people do not allow you to move forward only by telling your insecurities as the fault of your personality. Rather be with people who believe in working on themselves and want success for you, who trust you. In such a situation, your self-confidence will also increase.

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 3.Stop Comparing Yourself 

Nowadays many people have FOMO because of social media. It is fear of missing out on something. And believe me, nothing very important is missing from you if you are not active on social media or you are giving more importance to other things than sharing photos or videos on social media.

People share only their best moments on social media, every time what you see on social media is not true. So stop feeling bad for yourself that you are not active on social media with every trend like others or you are not taking/posting good photos like them.

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💓Always Remeber to Love yourself First💓